As less gender specific as possible

Germany, April 2026, Cat or tomcat? Champagne or booze?

We were out today and stopped at a restaurant. My friend ordered a dark beer, I ordered a ginger tea. Another waitress brought our beverages. I was asked if I had ordered the beer.

Me: No, it would be strange for me to order a beer in the afternoon. The cup of tea is for me.
She: We try to be as less gender specific as possible.

The consequences are that someone has to pretend not knowing something even though it’s 80% clear.
It’s a matter of politeness to ask who has ordered what. Sure. I’d do the same.

Nevertheless.

It’s also strange to pretend knowing less than you know.

‘Damengedeck’ orange juice and Champagne for the ladies and ‘Herrengedeck’ beer and booze for the gentlemen is probably out as well.

Times change.

I observe.
I’m amused.